Being a mom is the most important job a woman will ever have. Our role in the future success of our children is imperative. But how do we ensure our babies will become successful adults? Dr Gabor Mate highlights ONE thing that consistently determines future success. That ONE thing is more simple than you think, and it will shock you.
Dr. Gabor Maté
Who is Dr Gabor Maté?
Dr. Gabor Maté is a renowned physician and author who specializes in addiction, trauma, and childhood development. Born in Hungary and raised in Canada, he has dedicated his career to exploring the connections between mind and body, particularly how early childhood experiences shape our mental and physical health. His compassionate approach has made him a sought-after speaker and advisor on mental health and parenting.
Dr. Maté has written several influential books, including “In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts” and “When the Body Says No,” which delve into the roots of addiction and the impacts of stress on health. He co-authored “Hold On to Your Kids” with Dr. Gordon Neufeld, emphasizing the importance of parent-child attachment. Dr. Maté’s work has been instrumental in shifting perspectives on addiction and trauma, advocating for a more empathetic and holistic understanding of these complex issues.
The ONE Thing
A few months ago, there was an audio trending on Instagram of Dr. Maté discussing the impact of maternal behavior on the success of their children. In the audio, Dr. Maté highlights a study that followed mothers and their children over several decades. This study observed that children who had mothers who were exceptionally loving and attentive—often referred to as “supermoms”—grew up to be the most emotionally stable and successful adults.
Here’s what he said:
“The study divided the mothers into three groups: those who were somewhat distant, those who were generally good and interactive, and the supermoms who provided extra affection and connection. Thirty years later, it was found that the adults who were most well-adjusted and successful were those who had received the most doting and attentive care as infants. Dr. Maté emphasizes that you cannot love children too much and that such love and attention are crucial for healthy development.” ~ Dr. Gabor Maté
Amazing! Society tells us not to spoil our babies, don’t hold them too much, don’t be too responsive, etc. But it’s all a lie.
Go ahead, mama. Cuddle and snuggle your babies 24/7. There is so such thing as spoiling a baby. You cannot love them too much. In fact, your love is what will make them thrive and grow to be well-adjusted, successful adults.
If you want to hear the audio from Dr. Gabor, check out the video below.
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